Thoughts, opinions and a little ranting about the world I live in. These will be in a range from things I struggle with to wonderful insights I have had and will probably involve some observations along the way.
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
Stick a fork in me...
Monday, December 13, 2010
2010 Family Picture with Santa Clause
Missionary moment
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Noodle forest
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
Casual picture
Monday, November 29, 2010
"Box"ing day?...more like boxing weekend!
Double birthday for double the fun
JJ Thanksgiving Feast
Friday, November 5, 2010
A soft answer...
“A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.” - Proverbs 15:1
When I was younger I read this and thought, “I will try this next time someone is angry at me, and it will “turn their anger away”. Well, I tried it, and it did not work. In addition to it not working, it made me angry because they were not doing what they were suppose to, and on this point, the bible must be wrong.
As I have grown and matured over the years, I have revisted this thought and scripture. I have 6 small children at home, and sometimes we find ourselves in situations of wrath or contention. I tried this again, and still no luck. Recently I had an experience that has finally clarified this for me. As I reflected on this scripture, it hit me that it is not talking about the other person. This whole scripture applies only to reader. So next time I found myself with someone who was “in their wrath”(we have lots of opportunities to work on this) towards me, I tried to apply this new understanding. Instead of answering softly and expecting them to calm down, I answered softly and felt myself remain calm. A realization came over me that using a soft answer helps me to stay in control and helps me not to raise anger (or add to the anger) of others.
I have (at least) one child who struggles with his anger. He will get upset about something and within moments will blow up into uncontrolled rage. He has thrown objects at others with the intent to hurt them, as well as being extremely reckless with his body. This has caused a lot of harm to members of the family. When you see one child hurting other of your children, it is very hard to remain calm and loving (soft). I have found that when I am calm, I don't escalate my child and I can have inspiration come to me about things that I can do to distract or relieve his anger.
Today in my scripture study, I read another Proverb 29:22, “An angry man stirreth up strife, and a furious man aboundeth in transgression.” As I read this, I realized that in the past, I had allowed myself to become angry and then I stirred up strife with my child, who choose to escalate his behavior (in our house we call that “pushing each others buttons”). I realize now that not only is the Proverb true, but that the scriptures in whole need to be applied to me personally.
Sunday, October 3, 2010
No picture for this one - please!
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
My kids play piano
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Teaching kids the value of money and the widow's mite.
The twins know beans...and they eat them too!
Monday, September 27, 2010
Proof that women need to be in charge
Sunday, September 26, 2010
JJ the "Good sandwich making guy"
Sunday, September 19, 2010
A moral dilema
- First of all, I feel that we made a commitment to pay this mortgage off for this home.
- I also recognize that this house has become a hindrance to our family. This is something that we have worked years to change, but due to the market, our attempts have been frustrated and unsuccessful.
- We changed our strategy and started about a year ago, saving for a down payment on a second home. We had figured that it would take until next spring to have the requisite money for down payment, and money saved up in case we could not find a renter right away, etc.
- We felt (Actually Jeff felt) it was time to start looking for a new home in mid August (yes, right after school starts). I felt good about following Jeff's lead on this. We were frustrated with a lot of the homes we found. I finally told Jeff and our Realtor that we were wasting Jeff's time, and that the Realtor and I should just look at possibilities and narrow it down for us to come look at the good homes.
- When the Realtor and I looked at this home, I felt as we walked up the stairs that this was the house. Jeff felt good about it too when we came back. In the mean time there was another house that I really liked as well and we had to sift through the different possibilities. I also had conflicting feelings about the house - sounds crazy but it is a bit more "up-scale" in many areas that are almost uncomfortable for me.
Friday, September 17, 2010
I am not normally what I would call a fancy person...
Here are two shots of our walk-in closet. When we started looking a new home, I wanted balance with the bedroom sizes. I really did not want a bedroom any bigger than we had, but wanted the kids bedrooms to be larger. Well, in this house we ended up getting both. Our bedroom will be twice the size of our current bedroom, and our walk in closet will be about 4 times the size of our current closet, or half the size of our current bedroom! Still not sure what we will do with all that room!
These are our baseboards. They need some work, but I would have never gotten some thing this fancy on my own.
And this is another thing I love...our back patio. I've never seen one done like this before, but I think it is great! a little small, but great!
Thursday, September 16, 2010
the stripe room
A room full of monsters...
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
A thrilled girl, a baffled mommy
Q.What is as much fun as giving a cat a bath? A. trying to get two young boys into a bath.
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Sometimes a girl gets in trouble all by herself...
It just goes to show that my sister-in-law is rubbing off on my when my immediate reaction was, "I got to get a picture of this for the blog". My camera was sitting on the island, it's usual resting place these days, when I grabbed it and squatted down to take the picture. As soon as Rosie say the camera, she perked up and gave me a big Rosie smile. That's my girl, well at least one of the four!
Big boy can climb onto the couch
Our offer has been accepted...now for the next set of hoops to jump through.
This is the front of the house. Not very exciting looking, but the inside and backyard are great. Our kids required a few things:
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
What do you mean, 'there is double-trouble on the deck'
Get around, get around, I get around...
Monday, August 30, 2010
Another kid?
MaggieMae's birthday cake
MaggieMae is three!
Maggie is a lot of fun and definitely has the stubborn, I can do it myself attitude that we "Williams Women" have. She is also such a delight and fun to be around. She really gets humor and enjoys saying funny things.